You know that saying where you should love yourself and accept yourself first before loving someone else etc., I believe that is not necessarily true. In fact, I was reading a similar discussion elsewhere. I personally think that it is understandable how we don't always accept ourselves or 'love ourselves', we're still young and have a long way to go... ALL of us!
If you do love yourself, and happy with where you are, great, and I commend you for it. If you're not, then surely we haven't yet shaped into the individual we want to be or settle to be, therefore we are yet to be satisfied with ourselves.
The fact that you exist means you are significant, every single one of yous have a potential. It's also up to you to figure out where you want to be and do yourself justice for it. No one should expect you to be anyone other than yourself, and if it takes time to find out where you want to be, then so be it. So give yourself a break.
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