Virginity v4
 

In reference to two old threads, specifically this post and this post, I shall state the following. The answers would be either '24 years old', '25 years old', '28 years old' or '33 years old'." Now it's indisputable. Still a Gold Star, though.

What about youse?

I still have my anal virginity. Holding on to that until I meet the right person. Or at least the person with the right amount of money.

I looked through the previous Virginity threads and I've seen your statements on the topic of anal sex. Even for the right amount of money, would you able to go through with it without puking?

Damn those old virginity threads were a good walk down memory lane. Nothing helps you remember people who don't post any more like reading about their personal lives.

Anyway going on 20 and still got mine. I've met almost no new people since high school finished so socially things have gotten pretty stale. This year my goal is to throw myself out there and meet some cool new people.

Kind of glad I've waited because it means I've been able to get vaccinated for HPV, which was non-standard for boys in school here until last year. Mid way through the 6-month vaccine period I did pass up sex*** to be safe, too. Not sure if I regret that or not. I mean I obviously do right now at peak sexual frustration, but in the future I probably won't.

***EDIT: I didn't actually brush off a naked lady in the flesh or anything. For the record - it came up in online discussions twice, and I said not yet. But we almost definitely would have fucked by now. All things going well that person and I might have a day off uni together this semester.

EDIT2: Reading more of those old threads. Someone misquote me and change the word "meet" to "meat" for old time's sake.

Currently going on 21 and I still have mine as well. Likewise, a big reason is probably because of the fact that ever since high school, I've done very little socializing, so I haven't really had any opportunities. That being said, I'm not exactly gung ho to lose it any time soon, nor am I specifically interested in seeking someone out for both sex and/or a strong relationship of any kind...honestly. Which may sound a little sad but it's mostly because of the point I'm at in my life right now, personally speaking. I'm not avoiding it at all, but I'm also not actively looking for it.

I'm also not waiting for "the one" or anything like that, but despite that, I can't see myself being comfortable enough to have sex with someone unless I really, really trusted them. It would require a lot of time and effort. Basically, to summarize: I'm way more focused on other aspects of my life right now, and mixing in a relationship of any kind seems like it would do more harm than good - they would have to be absolutely worth it.

Yeah, I actually asked a doctor about it many years ago and he said I shouldn't get it because I'm not a girl, and that it supposedly wouldn't effective after like 21 anyway. Nowadays the recommendation is up to mid-20s for both guys and girls, and up to 30 for gay men. And my doctor here just said 'Fuckit' and injected me anyway, although the medication probably isn't going to be covered by my insurance.

They were very dismissive at school to the (gay) boys at my school who asked about getting vaccinated along with the girls, if memory serves.

I think Nate's trying to hit on some OWF users. For the fourth time.

Why is this a thread? What's the point of discussing this? I thought people kept this private.

OWF is shameless.

Admirable... I suppose.

Read the last 3 iterations of this thread where it's talked about openly. See every day adult life where people will occasionally ask you questions and you'll either lie or admit to being a virgin. It's personal information, but it's not private like your pin number or something. People can and will ask about it at times.

But yeah Nate is definitely just fishing for AiN to come back and contribute.

I am a sexhaver

Oh poor clueless newbie. If you think this is bad, please don't root around in this forum's history over the past 13 years. You will find... things...

I, of course, am not a virgin because I like sex way way way too much.

21. Still a Virgin. Completely cool with it.

See you in the next thread.

We had a Z00philia thread, too

20 and I r fucking. I lost mine at 18, well done me, I guess.

Wait when the fuck did you stop being a few years older than me Aidan? Were you lying about your age???

I feel so cheated.

Phylum, you intolerant bastard, he's a transageist

Oooh, some old fashioned forum drama. It's been too long. *Grabs popcorn*

I just read through that again a couple nights ago. A barrel of laughs it was, let me tell you.

I think I was 19 when my what remained of my innocence dissipated into the ether...
I think sex must be a primarily psychological thrill for most people, like the thrill of dominance or submissiveness, depending on your preferred role, because I remember being underwhelmed by the physical sensation. I find it pleasant, but I have suspicions that I'm less sensitive than I should be - might be too much information, but I have to admit, I've never finished first (sort of means I can savour the "journey" though, so I don't mind).
Also, I always questioned the idea of virginity. Does putting a body part somewhere or putting a thing in your orifice really make any difference to anything in the long run (unless it goes wrong/right and results in offspring)? The only explanation I can think of it is evolutionary - I suppose if we didn't assign some sort of value to it, we wouldn't have the same drive to reproduce.

I thought you were 18-19??? I'm 21 in March...I figured there was two years between us tops. MY LIFE IS A LIE TOMMO.

Curious, and you don't have to answer this, but how many partners have you had? With my ex, I never ever finished first in the entire time we were together. My current missus is completely different and normally I tend to manage 30-40 minutes tops. What I'm trying to say is that you might not necessarily be less sensitive, you might not just have found the right girl/guy?

Who knows, I'm just being nosey.

You are indeed. Fuck off with your invasive, wart-ridden, pokey hooter.

You might be right, I've had one partner for quite a long time. It's become a bit of a running joke, actually. Sometimes partway through a session, I'll look at my watch and roll my eyes - it's a good job she understands my humour...
Semi-related - I once had far too much to drink, and felt quite numb all over. After being manually handled, I had to be told that I'd finished, much to both of our amusement. Not my finest hour, but it gave me a laugh.

I forgot there were previous versions of this thread... can't remember if I posted... not sure if I want to check due to potential crippling embarrassment.

I don't know how much there is to say on this subject? I lost it at 16. I didn't wait to find someone I fell in love with. It wasn't good sex. It's not shameful but certainly nothing to be proud of.

Nope. Couldn't do it. I had a barium rectal exam when I was 13 because they thought I had appendicitis, and I cried the entire time. There's just no way.

I had a finger up my butt aged 5 from a doctor and cried the entire time. Doesn't mean you can't come to enjoy it. :p

Jokes aside, what if it's not your butt? Your old posts made it sound like even that sickened you.

You should assume from my OP that I have a dedicated boyfriend. No hitting is going on. Except that he hit that.

OWI has a long and colourful history of discussing deep and meaningful topics. Look at the Classics thread for some examples.

No, not AiN. I don't like jizz on my face.

Yup.

what?

I know certain Australians can be a bit hard to understand, but it's pretty obvious he means that, yes, he's still a virgin.

e: Poll threads like this are one of the few places short posts like Shade's can be good. I like to know who voted what, damnit.