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Abe's son 11-15-2004 02:23 PM

I Really Don't know how to put this so...
 
Well I was thinking... and I felt I should say this. Hopefuly this dosn't change your image of me. Ok how do I say this...

I'm Bisexual.

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There I said it. I found this out last year, and I accept it.

Thats all to say...

Cyber-Slig 11-15-2004 02:53 PM

Ehm ... right ... thanks for sharin' that

Majic 11-15-2004 02:55 PM

Good times, kiddo.

Al the Glukkon 11-15-2004 04:06 PM

Some one at my school told me she was Bisexual, don't know why she trusted me, though I don't know if it was true.

Edit: This is the first time I told anyone about it.

Dipstikk 11-15-2004 05:04 PM

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Hopefuly this dosn't change your image of me.

Don't even think that, Muse. Nobody here would dare think badly about you because a sexual preferrence, because if they did, then they'll have to answer to me.
It takes guts to come out of the closet like this. Good work.

AquaticAmbi 11-15-2004 05:08 PM

I find your willingness to say this with pride commendable. Congrats or something..

TheRaisin 11-15-2004 05:32 PM

People 'round here don't make stupid comments about people's sexual preferences. Or if they do, they find themself suddenly very outnumbered. Heh heh. This is a cool place.

Very cool for yourself. Umm thanks? For your. . . courage. And stuff.

Facsimile 11-15-2004 11:42 PM

Aha... I kind of don't see why you would bother telling an internet forum something like this, considering we will most likely never meet you, or your partner (whatever gender they happen to be).
And it doesn't take courage to say things on the internet. What are people going to do? Punch you?

Alcar 11-16-2004 03:02 AM

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Aha... I kind of don't see why you would bother telling an internet forum something like this, considering we will most likely never meet you, or your partner (whatever gender they happen to be).
And it doesn't take courage to say things on the internet. What are people going to do? Punch you?

I do see where you are coming from, as one of the largest attractions of the internet is the space between people. Although, you don't know, perhaps his parents check up on the forums every now and then. Or friends.

All of the best to you, Abe's Son.

Alcar...

paramiteabe 11-16-2004 05:33 AM

It is good that you have openly said that about yourself. The question for you is are you fine with it or do you feel guilty about it and/or would you like to change from that lifestyle or not?

But it is your life and nobody in the world can change you. You can only change yourself.

Paramiteabe... :fuzblink:

Cloverfield 11-16-2004 05:52 AM

Cheers AS! It's good that you are able to openly talk about something like that. Although we're a pretty open minded bunch on here, unlike some forums.

All the best with your bisexuality [egggh, that sounds corny, sorry].

Abe Babe...

Hobo 11-16-2004 07:11 AM

Join the club!

What's the sig by the way?

Leeum 11-16-2004 10:43 AM

Good for you mate, we admire your courage to come clean about something like this.

Rex Tirano 11-16-2004 11:29 AM

That's kool, it's great that you can share this with us. ^_^

I suppose, because you've been a member for a while, it's easier to come out here, and then maybe in real life. But cos you know us all it's probably the same. ^_^

What do I say now... Congrats?

Have a party hat. ^_^

Jacob 11-16-2004 12:05 PM

F*cking bender! Bi-f*cking-sexual!? Eugh! Get cured...or something! Like that's normal! Ewww...queer! EWWWW!! You're so going to burn in Hell for this.

*Mutters about the world going to Hell and how all Fags and Nig-nogs should be put to death...whilst skipping away*

Wil 11-16-2004 12:39 PM

Good for you, Abe's son. It does take courage to come out on the Internet, though in my experience less than in real life. This does change my image of you - now you seem more human. My advice: don't let anyone try to convince you that there's a better way to be. Always be yourself.

:)

Jacob 11-16-2004 01:06 PM

Just out of intrigued - wasn't Abe's son one of the Queer bashers?

Abeguy 11-16-2004 01:16 PM

...kay, well...actulley, it's not the first time someone's told me about their personal life so I'm more prepared now.


...and i think Jacob took this a little...uhh...how can I put it...Jacoby I guess

odd chick 11-16-2004 03:01 PM

No one should think any different of you just because of your sexual preference. In fact, it takes a lot of guts to come out and admit that and even though I don't know you, it doesn't make a difference to me what sexual preference you have because it's your life and no one can change who you are!

Cyber-Slig 11-17-2004 08:20 AM

Jacob for Christ sake man . People can't help sexual preferences . Except gays . Either they are perverts which is their own fault or they have too many female hormones which is not their fault . I'm guessing you're perverted . And AS pretty brave telling people that . It's not yer fault though .

Esus 11-17-2004 09:10 AM

I wanted to do the exact same response as Jacob, before Jacob had done it. Unfortunately, I hate putting 'j/k' or 'joking' anywhere in my post, and everybody would have missed the humour. Much like Cyber Slig has appeared to do to Jacob.

Dipstikk 11-17-2004 09:15 AM

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Jacob for Christ sake man . People can't help sexual preferences . Except gays . Either they are perverts which is their own fault or they have too many female hormones which is not their fault . I'm guessing you're perverted . And AS pretty brave telling people that . It's not yer fault though .

Yes, Jacob has mentioned that he is openly gay, and I don't think he was serious in that post.

Don't hoit me if I'm wrong, Jacob.

Jacob 11-17-2004 11:10 AM

Cyber...i don't get the "either they're perverted" thing. Enlighten me on the definition of perverted, and why some Homosexuals are perverted...

I hate Kikes and Niggsies!

Cyber-Slig 11-18-2004 09:39 AM

Right leather clothing or sitting dancing with youre dick hanging out while others watch ? I don't see women doing that . But apparently gays do now don't they ? Case closed

Esus 11-18-2004 09:42 AM

you're soooooooooooo right. I've never seen either a woman in leather or a topless one.

Cyber-Slig 11-18-2004 09:44 AM

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you're soooooooooooo right. I've never seen either a woman in leather or a topless one.

Right seems Junkie Boy here does'nt get it . Right then . spiky leather . ****ing happy ? And did I say anything about topless women?

Wil 11-18-2004 10:52 AM

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...sitting dancing with youre dick hanging out while others watch ? I don't see women doing that.

Gee, CS, how can I break this to you? Women don't have penises. Sorry.

Oh, and saying gays are perverted for wearing spikey leather is a three-way generalisation.
1) Not all gays do that.
2) One doesn't have to be gay to do that.
3) Just because you haven't seen a woman in spikey leather, doesn't mean there aren't any.

oddguy 11-18-2004 10:55 AM

I hate stereotypes. Being religious, I get put into one myself.
I don't think it's fair to label gays "perverts" or anything else for that matter.

-oddguy

Abeguy 11-18-2004 01:01 PM

yeah, i agree

Cyber-Slig 11-18-2004 02:02 PM

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Gee, CS, how can I break this to you? Women don't have penises. Sorry.

Oh, and saying gays are perverted for wearing spikey leather is a three-way generalisation.
1) Not all gays do that.
2) One doesn't have to be gay to do that.
3) Just because you haven't seen a woman in spikey leather, doesn't mean there aren't any.

I know that . OK would you rather I editted and put it in more simpler but more disgusting terms ? . And I never labelled all gays perverts . Too many female hormones or just perverted .

oddguy 11-18-2004 02:24 PM

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And I never labelled all gays perverts .

Sure seemed like it, but I could be wrong. The thing is, you have to be careful of what you say when you're discussing such a touchy subject. People can take things the wrong way. Religion, Politics, Lifestyles...etc.

Anyway, here's what you said...

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Right leather clothing or sitting dancing with youre dick hanging out while others watch ? I don't see women doing that . But apparently gays do now don't they ? Case closed

Right...
When talking about...whatever you are, you say "gays." As in, more than one. In the context of your post, it looks as if you're adressing the entire gay lifestyle. So, it would seem you're labeling all gays. Case Closed. ;)

Have a nice day. :)

-oddguy

AquaticAmbi 11-18-2004 02:29 PM

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Too many female hormones or just perverted .

Or secret (apparently secret to some people anyway) option number 3... THEY'RE JUST ATTRACTED TO PEOPLE OF THEIR OWN SEX or in Abe's son's situation, both sexes. Who would have guessed?

Heh, so CS, I'm curious, are you calling Abe's son a pervert if he doesn't have any extra female hormones?

Jacob 11-18-2004 02:51 PM

I just don't see what's perverse about being attracted to another man. It seems to me, CS, that you are concentrating on the intimate aspect of a Homosexuals relationship, which is something far more perverse. I mean, what kind of sicko imagines people having sex when they first meet/see them?

Homosexuality is the same as Heterosexuality, only the people we fall in love with are the same sex as us.

When put in the context of "Homosexuality is merely a man being in love with another man" it seems a lot less "perverted" i'm sure you'll agree. It's when your kind start thinking of what we do behind closed doors - then the trouble starts. Just...don't. Why would you even want to? Can't you just accept that our brains are wired so we fall in love with members of the same sex, instead of concentrating on our sex lives all the time?

'Right leather clothing or sitting dancing with youre dick hanging out while others watch ?'

Lol. And where in the Hell did you come up with that generalisation? Moreso the latter, since i've heard of the former loads.

CS - it might help if you actually tried to get to know a few Homosexuals. Instead of allowing your idiocy to rule your competance. Don't worry, we won't try and mount you whilst walking down the street.

Al the Glukkon 11-18-2004 05:37 PM

Cyber-slig, what the hell are you talking about?

Nate 11-18-2004 06:31 PM

Well my respect for CS just jumped out the window. Unfortunately I'm on the ground floor so it survived. I had to go to town with a good, old fashioned plank-with-a-nail. It's not going to be getting up any time soon.

And to answer your question A the G: CS is taking a few rare, Queer-as-folk stereotypes and assuming they apply only to gay people.

In my time surfing the net for 'entertainment', I've been much more disturbed by some of the straight stuff than the gay.

Cyber-Slig 11-19-2004 07:48 AM

[CS - it might help if you actually tried to get to know a few Homosexuals. Instead of allowing your idiocy to rule your competance. Don't worry, we won't try and mount you whilst walking down the street.
You don't know a thing do you ? I know some homosexuals . One of which being my stupid ****ing uncle . Seeing how they all behave does'nt set a good example for gays . That's all you need to know . And yes maybe some gays aren't pervy they just like other men I'll say sorry for that but NDW did you even have respect for me in the first place?

Dipstikk 11-19-2004 09:22 AM

Get a F*CKING CLUE!
 
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You don't know a thing do you ?

Have you not been reading? Jacob just said he was gay not two even three posts ago! How can you ask if he knows about them or not?!

I told you that as well that he was gay. Just because you had a bad experience with one person doesn't make the group bad! Jesus F*cking H. Christ, CS! I mean, the info is just layed out in front of you, and you disreguard it like it doesn't show up on your browser!

The fact that your uncle is creepy is irrelivent. The point is that not all gay people have high lispy voices, wear black leather, and go out dry-humping anyone or anything! Most of them are very respectable people.

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Seeing how they all behave does'nt set a good example for gays .

Your Uncle = All Gays? Wait, am I the only one here who sees how that coudn't possibly work?
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...On a side note, I don't want to mislead anyone. I'm straight, I likes me them boobies and vaginnies. It just f*cking pisses me off when people make generalizations about anything. Ignorance is the most popular part of the human condition.

Cyber-Slig 11-19-2004 09:52 AM

Back off man . I never said anything Jacob not knowing anything about gays you wierdo . He does'nt know a thing about what I know from what homosexual things I know . Now I'm going to ****ing stop this arguement before I make an enemy .

Cheers

oddguy 11-19-2004 02:13 PM

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He does'nt know a thing about what I know from what homosexual things I know .

eh? Are you saying he doesn't know what level you're educated in homosexuality? That you know more than he's giving you credit for? Well, based on your remarks...all you know are stereotypes and generalizations.

-oddguy

Cyber-Slig 11-19-2004 02:21 PM

Now I'm going to ****ing stop this arguement before I make an enemy .

Cheers


take a hint from now on okay ? I'll type it in bold just so you will bother to godamn read the rest of my posts