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Mac Sirloin 03-11-2016 11:17 AM

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Man, can't you two just get along? I don't think any of you really wants to be hostile towards another.

Slog Bait can get along just fine, I just started shit for no reason.

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Well, Jenner is innocent.

dis guy

RoryF 03-11-2016 11:18 AM

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Man, can't you two just get along? I don't think any of you really wants to be hostile towards another.

when there's rep involved, it's time to get hostile

Manco 03-11-2016 11:26 AM

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Bruce Jenner had the crash in February 2015. Caitlyn Jenner didn't, because Bruce wasn't publicly Caitlyn until April of 2015. I'm not misgendering, I'm establishing the order of events.

I see where you’re coming from, but there is a difference between using male pronouns to describe Jenner specifically while discussing past events, and to consistently refer to Jenner as Bruce and to use male pronouns throughout the entire discussion.

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I'm not positing that Bruce Jenner never wanted to evaluate his feelings on his gender before this point. I'm saying that the public announcement post-surgery was a ploy to draw attention away from the fact that someone fucking died because Bruce Jenner rear ended them into oncoming traffic.

That’s entirely possible. It doesn’t mean those feelings aren’t genuine and that Jenner is indeed transgender, and you seem to be trying to prove she isn’t.


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To put this more bluntly, you are not going to convince me that some wealthy shit-paste from Northern LA is above playing on controversial topics to spin certain attitudes in her favour.

You’re seriously downplaying the effort that goes into transitioning by describing it as “playing on controversial topics”. Surgery, therapy, hormone medication, mountains of legal paperwork, learning a completely new set of social rules, body language, voice training, wardrobe change, potential ridicule, potential loss of friends/family, and even putting oneself at risk of being assaulted.

Pretending to be gay would be “playing on controversial topics”. Pretending to be trans would be batshit insane.


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To simplify, so you don't get on me for misgendering (you really think I'm that unsympathetic to such a devalued role? Come on.), if the stresses of gender identity were so great, why would she possibly come out in such a public fashion?

It’s not really a secret that the Kardashian family lives vicariously in the public eye, so it’s consistent with that behaviour, for one thing. For another, I can easily imagine someone with that amount of influence deciding to use it to try and publicize and educate an issue they care deeply about , and to be a role model to others with the same condition – whether that’s egotistical or not doesn’t change the intent behind it.


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You think I'm devaluing Trans people by calling out bullshit, I'm not. I'm reinforcing the fact that we need to attach positive role models to devalued people like the Trans community, and Caitlyn 'kept the dick' Jenner is not in my opinion a portrait of stability or competency that people should be championing.

I haven’t once tried to convince you that Jenner is a good role model or someone to look up to, I’m trying to tell you that it’s highly unlikely she would go to such lengths to fake such a condition. Keeping one piece of her anatomy doesn’t invalidate the extensive alterations to other areas, nor does it invalidate all the other work that goes into transitioning and maintaining her appearance.


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No, I don't think it invalidates anything. I think it's worth pointing out that there's a big fat difference in getting some tits and a facelift after killing someone with your morbidly obese luxury vehicle, and having your gender reassigned. I think it indicates a lack of certainty in gender identity not to buy yourself a functional vagina if you can afford one, and indicates the unthinkable, completely bizarre idea that maybe Bruce rushed into the initial surgery to appear devalued because maybe he wasn't so sure it was what he wanted, him or herself.

Not every trans woman wants to get a functional vagina. It’s a known fact, it doesn’t invalidate their identity.

Mac Sirloin 03-11-2016 12:12 PM

I definitely said the stuff about dicks and vaginas just to be irksome. I genuinely don't know the anatomical considerations a trans person must face in undergoing gender reassignment.

I keep going back to being judgemental about 'Hollywood spin', but I don't mean to trivialize gender dysphoria. I think that the most reasonable way I can phrase myself, is that Caitlyn Jenner herself emerged out of what all evidence points towards as a case of genuine transexuality, as far as I understand it, which I think it's fairly obvious is less of a fundamental comprehension of what that means than you have. I mean to judge the role that publication of these facts may play in litigation, not the events and feelings that led up to to the publication of these facts, and not because I think it will effect my social or political perspective on Trans people as a whole, but because I am a remorseless gossip who admittedly reads tabloids.

I believe that the public announcement, not the surgery, therapy, and other channels through which sexual reassignment occurs, was a tactic used for the sake of pushing attention away from the vehicular manslaughter. This isn't necessarily for the sake of greed, as I've been implying, but could simply be because Jenner is representative of a devalued group of people and it's better to reflect on the positives than the negatives to avoid toxifying the issue further.

Again, it is neither my position to judge nor in my current knowledge to understand how sexual reassignment works. I simply think it should be acknowledged (somewhat stubbornly) that the two events (those being the crash and the publication and press tour associated with Jenner's 'coming out') coincided in a way that was convenient to galvanize a particular disingenuous sympathy for Caitlyn Jenner that was wholly removed from the fact that, at whatever stage in her life she was, someone died because of her actions.

And uh...you're not implying this, at all, but I do not think that the accident was caused by the fact that Jenner is a woman. Okay, now I'm just being silly.

That being said, I think we're basically agreed on the subject, albeit my position on the media is a pessimistic one and I feel like yours is positive. It is good that she came out, I just think it's too bad she happens to be a murderer.

STM 03-11-2016 12:21 PM

Can we all just agree that women are inferior to men and transsexualism doesn't exist? There is no man or woman or in between, only Scrabtrapman, for it is all encompassing and knows compassion for every microcosmic avatar that constitutes its whole.

Manco 03-11-2016 12:21 PM

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That being said, I think we're basically agreed on the subject, albeit my position on the media is a pessimistic one and I feel like yours is positive. It is good that she came out, I just think it's too bad she happens to be a murderer.

Yeah, that pretty much covers it, I think we’re on the same page now. (Although I’ll personally wait to see the outcome of the court case before calling anyone a murderer.)

Vlam 03-11-2016 02:07 PM

Xorlydir, which international day will you choose next time? http://www.un.org/en/sections/observ...national-days/

Varrok 03-11-2016 02:08 PM

World Cancer Day seems fun. Let's celebrate cancer

Nepsotic 03-11-2016 03:21 PM

Isn't that basically the same thing as Women's Day?

Alf Shall Rise 03-11-2016 03:44 PM


FennecFyre 03-11-2016 03:53 PM

https://45.media.tumblr.com/de1bd45a...fhi2o1_400.gif
I didn't expect to see debates/flamewars of this caliber going on on a forum about old videogames.

I think I'm gonna like it here.

EVP_Glukkon 03-11-2016 09:53 PM

Yeah they tend to be a vocal bunch.

Nate 03-11-2016 11:08 PM

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It's not the 'trans identity' that's the problem it's the people who're using the label to make themselves feel special then actively ruining it for the people who are genuine.

Okay, I'll agree with that in theory. But making the judgement call on other people's motivation is a foolish proposition.

Nepsotic 03-11-2016 11:34 PM

Sometimes it's obvious Nate. It's not like I'm going around going "well she's clearly bullshitting."

Nate 03-12-2016 04:47 PM

Well, the way you've been posting here makes it sound like you're assuming that more often than not.

Nepsotic 03-15-2016 01:34 PM

Skepticism =/= Transphobia

Mac Sirloin 03-15-2016 09:19 PM

What's there to be skeptical about? How and why would you need to know and why do you care? How does someone identifying as trans affect you in any way whatsoever and what purpose does your judgement or skepticism serve?

Nepsotic 03-16-2016 01:51 AM

You can still doubt something without being actively concerned about it.

Mac Sirloin 03-16-2016 05:58 AM

That's not answering any of my questions. For what purpose do you doubt?

Nepsotic 03-16-2016 06:19 AM

I don't necessarily doubt, but I'm skeptical because so many people lie about it for attention. Also I'm a skeptical person.

Xorlidyr 03-16-2016 06:25 AM

Be happy. Do not care. It is not worth it. Nothing shall be changed.
Everyone dies. There is no need to waste energy on negativity.

Nepsotic 03-16-2016 07:06 AM

I don't care.

Mac Sirloin 03-16-2016 07:19 AM

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so many people lie about it for attention.

How do you know that?

FrustratedAssassin 03-16-2016 07:22 AM

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I don't care.

You keep saying that but obviously you care about a lot of things, otherwise you wouldn't get so worked up every time someone opposes you.

Vlam 03-16-2016 07:35 AM

Nepsotic is as gentle as a lamb.

Varrok 03-16-2016 07:36 AM

Lamb of God

Nepsotic 03-16-2016 08:04 AM

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You keep saying that but obviously you care about a lot of things, otherwise you wouldn't get so worked up every time someone opposes you.

I'm not worked up, there's a difference. For example, when I post it's because I think it's hilarious. If you want "getting worked up all the time" go and look through your own post history.

FrustratedAssassin 03-16-2016 08:22 AM

That is literally what I was talking about

Nepsotic 03-16-2016 08:26 AM

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when I post it's because I think it's hilarious.
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Vlam 03-16-2016 08:27 AM

Seriously, can't you two get along?