I use Native.

I'm certainly more attracted to girls, but for over a year now I've found myself thinking that I might be slightly attracted to guys... but despite being quite entertained by the idea of giving head to a guy, the thought of kissing one was a bit disgusting to me. And I couldn't really picture the sort of guy I might actually be attracted to.

Until today, actually. Though I've yet to meet one.

I don't think I would ever do anal sex, though (with a guy or girl).

EDIT:

I'm not gay. And Amy Pond is fucking hot.

I have a feeling when you're presented a moist, warm vagina begging to pleasured by your tongue you'll have a different story to tell.

Perhaps...

*shouts for MA*

WE NEED YOUR VAGINA FOR A SEC TO TRY SOMETHING OUT

I'm not having my tongue dissolved by his acidic enzymes, get one of the bitches from your dungeon.

I don't really care about defined sexuality. If I'm attracted to woman I'll be happy to have sex with her, and ditto for a man.

I don't think I could ever fall in love with a man, though, so I'm probably not gay.

You know what would be the worst kind of hell? Being sexually attracted to one gender but romantically attracted to the other. You could never enjoy sex with someone you love, and never have a romantic involvement with someone you enjoy sex with...

You should email Lucifer with that one!

Cool, hell has internet now? Sweet, I can make a reservation to have my torture room overlook the lake of eternal fire!


At least that's what the brochure said. Can't wait to get there.

For me, in terms of romance and falling in love and that stuff it's all about the person inside, I did fall in love with a girl once because she's such an amazing and caring person, but with me not being sexually attracted to girls obviously nothing was going to come of it. She fell in love with me to so that made things worse. Obviously I'm in love with somebody else now and me and that girl are just really close friends.

Yeah, I don't really understand the concept of only being romantically attracted to a gender. Doesn't that defy the point of romantic attraction?

I don't think it's possible to be only romantically attracted or only sexually. The two are pretty intertwined and one usually leads to the other.

Sounds like someone's never actually had clean pussy.

The ones I went down on, anyway.

They're there for me to put my proto-Dix into, not lick it.

Just admit that you only ever sleep with dirty skanks.

¬_¬ Think wisely before you speak Dixy. I shan't be going to your dungeon ever again if you hurt my feelings.

Wait so you guys ARE hitting it off???

STM is certainly "hitting it off"

I've never heard of that happening, but I do have a good friend who's sexually attracted to both guys and girls, but only romantically attracted to girls. Which means that he can talk about guys he finds attractive with his girlfriend without her feeling threatened. :D

I find what WoF said fascinating, because I'd never really thought about it like that. I can say that I've met a few women over the years about whom I've thought "If I were straight, you'd be the sort of girl I'd like" but that's about as far as the thought process has gone.

I don't understand that. Isn't romantic attraction about the person on the inside? It is for me anyway as I explained above. What if your friend met a guy that was exactly like his girlfriend apart from the obvious

What would stop him from being romanticly attracted to that guy?

I can sort of see how that would work. I'm very open about my sexuality and I wouldn't outright be against sex with a guy. However somehow my male ego is preventing me to look at any guy in a romantic manner. Even if I try, I just get a 'service denied' error in my head and get grossed out. It's weird but makes sense at the same time.

Basically that. Love is supposed to be a heartfelt feeling that everything is just right, wheras if I considered having a romantic relationship with a man it would just feel wrong.

Yeah, well you don't understand the concept of only being sexually attracted to one gender either. :p

I'm pretty sure the summary word you're all looking for is BROMANCE. I have this with many of my oldest, best friends, and you could say it was... 'romantic', and entirely non-sexual.

I thought bromance was more like a sense of deep companionship, like, y'know, he was your brother.

Well, in a way, but it's different, there's an element of romance to it too. Like, best BEST friends, would do a lot for each other. Watch Pineapple Express for an example of this. :p

I've got good friends that I believe would fit the definition of "Bro's". We hug without fear, cry when we need to, and no issue is too personal.

However, I have no desire to move in with him, or get married, or move our relationship to anything other than "Bro's". I'm just not gay, simple as that.

Without wanting to reinforce the gender binary, girls and guys tend to have different personalities and outlooks on life. I can see why it's possible to be attracted to one personality type over another.

PHEROMONS! He could be very nice but if you haven't got any hormone disorder you're never gonna be attracted by him! Neither romantically!

My point is, if you are attracted sexually to men then what is stopping you from being romanticly attracted to them? That is what I fail to understand.

You could love that man, could not you?

I am in love with a man. I was sexually attracted to him at first and really wanted sex at least once with him. But he's such a sweet and caring person inside that I fell in love with with him and now we are both in a happy relationship in love with each other.

Yes I've had one offs in the past. I haven't been interested in a relationship with that person because I don't feel for them that way.

But that is all to do with the person, not their gender, I'm sexually attracted to males and am romanticly attracted to males in general. I don't understand how you can only have one of the two.