I was talking to this guy on Friday who claimed it is impossible to be gay, and that those who are didn't try straight sex first.

He was coloured every shade of stupid, an ideal person who was raised on myths. I honestly wanted to smash his teeth in, alas my friend had a thing for him so I deferred to her wishes.

Next time...

Well I lost my virginity with a girl, I'd love to tell him that fact and hear his response.

I had the "gay is a choice" conversation with a friend at the pub last night, the amount of times I've been asked by people "is being gay a choice" urgh, drives me insane. Though to be fare, he was really drunk, I could barely have a conversation with him.

I think what most people are really driving at with that question is "Couldn't you choose to live a lie for my convenience?"

I don't.

(in response to the thread title, didn't read the rest)