Scrabtrapman, you are being a cunt at the moment. This forum should never be shot down for discussing issues, there's always a place for different topics and views. The ones you have suggested have not been created just yet. If you want to talk about them, make a topic, nobody is stopping you.
Besides, I think this topic can be evolved beyond just ginger people, but the boundaries of jokes in general. I find that more interesting to be honest. |
Did I mention I hate the word 'Spaz'?
Because I do. |
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I think that for the amount of hardship people have been through in the past, calling someone with red hair ginger does not qualify. That being said, an interesting concept is the growth of empathy, people now are (in the majority) more empathetic than they were say 400 years ago, if this empathy keeps on growing, eventually, there might perhaps be a massive decline in the overall level of prejudice. And we're going to have to get on with it and love one another eventually, it's not like we can viably segregate every race, social class, ethnicity, age, disability, religion or sexual orientation. That being said you'd think that in multi-cultural areas we'd eventually get more tolerant of one another naturally but when I worked as a labourer in east London the same old shit cropped up: the blacks didn't like the whites, the Poles and Albanians didn't get on so well with the established English demographic and the English had a thing against the blacks and Muslims. It wasn't rampant but it was there, I mean, I lost half my wages because I got caught up in some racial tensions I had nothing to do with, (a long story.) |
The bottom line for me is;
Gingers have never been forced into slavery, made to drink from separate water fountains, called a threat to traditional family values, or been the subject of mass protest by religious proselytizers - at least not by extension of being gingers. Of course, having red hair used to be a trait associated with jews, and they have been persecuted to that end. But I simply do not agree that there is enough legitimate prejudice against gingers for "ginger" to be considered a hurtful term. As for the accusation of soullessness, it is so outrageous and baseless that, regardless of hair color, anyone whose feelings are hurt by it need to pay a visit to their dermatologist for a thorough skin-thickening. |
I don't consider 'ginger' a hurtful word... it's just a word like any other, and it doesn't really have any nasty history behind it(it is a yummy spice though :3).
If I ever used the word 'ginger', it was never with malice. But that's not really the beef I have with this whole deal either. |
In high school, I used to be bullied sometimes for being a "ginger" and I hated my hair color. I dyed my hairs black until I started accepting and liking being red-head, no more problem now. If you make a ginger joke about yourself before they do, they stop...
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I used to be picked on horribly for my big nose. You know what? I just had to live with it. People are dicks, it's the way of the world.
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From Wikipedia. |
For years there was this disparaging word being thrown about my school. "Ginger". Pronounced with a hard "g" at the start to rhyme with "ringer". It took me years to realise that this had anything to do with the word "ginger" with two soft "g"s, even though it was only ever applied to red-haired students (it only ever conjured in my mind the similar sounding insult "minger").
But there was no doubt that it was cruel. The point is the intent, not the word itself. The intent is clear from the tone, social situation and accompanying jeers. It's not the word itself that has the effect, it is the outright statement that you are rejected by your fellow students for nothing more than the genetically-determined colour of your hair, and that they are gleefully pointing out this fact and reinforcing the imposed social status. It doesn't matter what the word is. It could be "Jabberwocky" for all it matters, but no bully is going to come up with that, they're going to focus on the particular trait that they deem makes one a worthy target. There is nothing inherently offensive about the word "mucus," but that did not make it hurt any less when I was reminded of they name my classmates had given me. |
You know what I have to call you from now on then, don't you?
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I always thought you were dirt blonde and Wil had brown hair, I've even met Wil. I'm so confused. |
They didn't call me "ginger". I witnessed it.
It's funny, I've always considered my own hair to be brown, but it's frequently described as variants of blonde by others. The sun certainly bleaches it that colour. |
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People may or may not know that I have a speech impediment (Stammer) My speech slipped one day and this guy called me a spaz. It wasn't nice at all, it's really offensive. :fuzsad:. |
I get called a retard a lot...I call people retarded a lot, because there isn't an inherent relation to a disability as such any more, rather it's just a way of saying, 'mate, you're fucking stupid.' At the end of the day, if you're worried you're going to be offended, sit inside your house all day and roll yourself up in bubble wrap. Or you could take it on the chin and learn to laugh at yourself like most people do.
Hell at the very least anyone generally being a dick to you will get bored and fuck off. |
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And that's not on. |
Oh yeah, Blindey McStagger, right?
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I have ocular motor dyspraxia which is sort of like your body being dyslexic. It means bad hand eye coordination.
I have cerebellar hyporplasia, a malformed occipital lobe which I was born with so thankfully my visual system worked its shit out by the time my brain lateralized. Still means my balance is horrible and I can hardly run or do sports without tripping over. And lastly, I have a minor irritable form of epilepsy which leads to occasional white outs. Mistaken quite a bit when I was younger for day dreaming (Which I also do a lot of, coincidently). |
How do you explain the rest of it?
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Didn't know the last bit. Okay, your new name is Blindey McStagg-*Mime seizure*
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Blindey McStaggershakes rolls nicely off the tongue.
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Blindey McStaggelepsy? Nah, too many Y's.
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captain philoso-fits
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How much do you think WoF is enjoying this?
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Diminishing returns.
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