Excuse me? Is there a certain age at which one can experience love? Does love need to be certified by an outside observer? Do other people have to think one is in love for one to be in love?

I hate it when people think you can't fall in love at a young age, or when someone thinks that they can determine whether someone is in love or not.

I would want eternal life and the world in the palm of my hand so I could crush everything like a bug. I'm so depraved :D

Yeah, you're depraved. You burned a rabbit! YOU NEED HELP!!!

I need anger management. I was irked by that damn thing, I killed it for a reason. :D

I'm saying that he's a moron and he doesn't know what he wants. And I'm betting you it's a little crush and he will be over it in a month or two.
That's not love.

Yes, here's a question. Why do you 'love' her? Because she's attractive? No. You can't love someone for their looks. Some of the most vain people are very attractive, and their beauty is usually the reason for their vanity. For her personality? There are strong ties with personal loves, yes, but she could be very ugly. I don't know this girl and I have doubts that you know much about her either. My girlfriend has been with me for years, it's not because I can't find another girl or that she can't find another guy, it's that we do love each other and don't just drift apart because of attractions to others.

Love can be determined by age... it encompasses (sp!.. f**king DI! Yaada yaada... dyslexic!) a lot of feelings and experiences which a very young person would not understand or be able to experience...

One example out of the "Love Is... " context

Love is... not being embarrassed or enraged by your loved one when they're pissed out of their brain... you find it endearing, cute and you're concerned for their safety...

At 14 he shouldn't be getting drunk!

You need life experience to decide who and what is right for you... I don't argue that what... whats his name?... feels at 14 feels very real to him at the moment but I really doubt that his intended is the love of his life... although you do hear of people who have only ever dated eachothr since they were 16 and marry... shure they end in divorce but its a sweet story! :p

I have had alot of expirance and I hace thought about this for a long time ok, I'm a bit more mature then most others my age, I know what love is and I know who I'm suppose to be with, so don't doubt me, I know what I'm getting into and I have plans for the future already to be prepared for it, and claire bear don't give me that "it seems very real at the moment" crap, u don't think I havn't heard that already, well I know I'm in love, how do I know well the lust and excitment of a new relationship is gone, yet I still want to be with her, I'm attached to her, and I worry about her sometimes when were separated, and I'm not giving up on this girl even though her mom is separating us, were still sneaking phone calls, I love her I know it and I'm not giving up, get used to it, life and love will find a way on keeping us together if it's meant to be and I'm pretty damn sure it is.

'I think thats just sick making fun of it'

I shall bare your opinion in mind and put it in my "Couldn't give a f*ck" folder for safe keeping.

Oddfan, you remind me of a guy i once heard about. He, too, loved a 14 year old and they both said they were in love. She loved him so much, she'd do anything for him, even cover up for him. He said he loved her too. It was so sweet, so romantic...he was 56.

Let's have a moment of silence, let's reflect upon my little story. Come on, sit around in a circle, hold hands.

Jacob, I don't think that pertains to this situation at all.

I think Jacob is saying that people in love at an early age don't exactly know what is best for them...or think clearly...err something like that.

-oddguy

It was complete crap with a vague "children think they're in love, because they want to be in love". Such as when Paedophiles groom children, a very similiar situation. Well...not really, but in both cases the participants aren't really in love.

Saying that however, i fell in love in year 8.

Oddfan, how long have you been with this girl?

I am just wondering, not trying to bash you or anything.

14 years old humans are children? We're just youngs, no childrens anymore! At least in Hungary... This is the thing I hate Hungary...

Good point. A fourteen-year-old isn't an adult, but nor are we children. We are adolescents, damn it, and we can feel love!!!!

I have been with her for only a half a year, and I could easily get another girl, there are plenty, but even though I am being separated from this girl and it would be easier just to find another, I'm not going to find another cause I love the girl I'm with now even though I'm not allowed to be with her.

No one said you can't feel love. It was simply stated that you don't know what real love is, you may think it's love, but it is it really? Or the fact that you make love sound so minimal.

if the lust is gone, u know all the excitment of a new relationship. but I still am attached to her emotionally and I want to be with her all the time still and don't want anyone else, what could that be?

Nausea.


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If i could have any one wish it would have to be that the entire population of the Earth wouldhear and believe the gospel- in short, a world full of Christians who all respected and cared about each other.

Whoa! I have a friend who decided it to destroy the gospel, the christian thing, etc. and he sad "No believe in God, believe in whatever you want"... Well I believe whatever I want...

'If i could have any one wish it would have to be that the entire population of the Earth wouldhear and believe the gospel- in short, a world full of Christians who all respected and cared about each other.'

So, a world full of miserable people who don't try anything new out of the fear they will be banished to Satans dirty bath water...? Oh yeh, such a perfect world(!)

nausea.....oh yeah right, forget it I give up go ahead think what u want, it's not worthit, I know I'm in love and I don't have to prove it to anyone.

Huzzah for Jacob, the embodiment of hilarity.

Huzzah for Oddfan too, just because.

And huzzah for Will, who entertains me with his creative grammar.

Yea, what that guy above me said :lol::lol::lol:

What this mean?
Look, the hungarian language a very hard language, harder than english, translate to english is very hard, because there are words where in english uhhh... mean one thing, but in hungarian mean 2000 other things... and I still learning it...

I know, Will. Sorry. Incidentally, how long have you been learning English?

I wait... I been at pre-school when I learned some words... and in 1st grade my friends sad when I'm playing outside, they're going to learn english, and I said Ok... and in 3rd grade the english lessons became normal, so we must study it... and in the 7th grade I become the best in english in my class, and I not learned english for two years, cuz I know too much... but I must learn again...

I don't know what to say really! Well maybe it's time for me to tell my wish. I wish that all my wishes come true.
Why?
Because, I can wish anything I want, I can turn Earth to Heaven, or I can be the ruler of it...hehe. And when I get tired of it, then I'll wish that everything turned to normal again.
Pretty good aint it?

That's a really sad story, someone should wish for you to be back together...Oh what the hell! I wish Oddfan and his bitch were back together!