You assume sex is the only reason people stay together, which is simply not true. While sex serves as a very strong motivator for relationships to form, it isn't the sole thing keeping the relationship together.

My and my GF for instance have had a short period where we desperately tried to fight the urge to sex with others because we were afraid it would destroy our relationship. In the meantime that same urge started to tear up our relationship from the inside. Eventually we came to the conclusion that we were both unhappy with being cooped in with each other, but at the same time didn't want to lose each other for anything either. Like I said, our sex life is outstanding on any scale I can think of, so that certainly wasn't the problem either.

When we agreed to an open relationship the relationship immediately intensified hugely. Our sex, against all expectations, got even better as did our love for each other. So in my case, so far it's been all good. No downside except maybe the curiosity as to who exactly she's doing and how. But we generally tell each other those stories at some point, that's how open we are about this.

I think the problem that most people have with the idea of a threesome/open relationship is the assumption that someone always gets hurt. And what DI said is certainly true. Propose it to the wrong person and it will completely wreck your relationship. This is why threesomes and open relationships only have a chance at working if you're both open to the idea from the get go. It's not something either one person should have to get used to after months or years of steady relationship. It has to come natural or not at all.

I didn't say that sex is the only reason that relationships stick. I'm just saying that something as intimate as sex should be kept within the relationship, and as I said before, that's just my opinion and I'm not going to condemn anyone who doesn't feel that way.

Put it this way. I would feel fucking betrayed by my girlfriend sleeping with someone else on the same level I would if they were emotionally intimate together. It's just the way I am.

Well you'd have every right to feel betrayed if you didn't approve it to begin with.

This. Sex is not neccessarily love, and vice versa.

Don't get me wrong, I'm not enough of a scumbag to just blatantly cheat. And if it was simply because I don't love her and fancy knocking on someone elses' boots then I'd end the relationship, because it wouldn't be fair to lead her on as to it being any different anyway. But, fact is, I love her. We have great sex, I'm just a little curious about trying some stuff out. Seems fair enough to me, it's not like I'm going to tear down the relationship over it.

I meant that boredom could be a factor the same way that an artist gets bored if they don't create.

Anyway it doesn't matter. x_x If both parties agree to a certain dynamic that works for them, then that's what counts.

I just hope everyone is happy and all is well =)

Too late :tard:

Well it's settled then. Next on the agenda: OWF Orgy 2011, when and where? :p

Only if Nexy and Skilya Glowi are there. I have debts to collect.

Creep!

Oh I'm sorry. I didn't think you'd want to join, being in a relationship and all hating my guts and all. :p

I kid, I kid, no worries

I'm sure we can create some sex games using the Oddworld games ;)

No! Don't! Don't I tell you!

Then I will say this now. I won't be attending unless there is booze!

I won't be attending unless there's at least one willing female, since I'm about the only straight person in this place.

MoxCo might be the closest thing you'll get :p

Sorry MoxCo :p

Then I'm literally not coming. :tard:

So you aren't reading about it?

I'm on your wavelength.

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It was 3AM okay... :fuzsad:

Monogamy is for quitters.

Alcar...

I feel like I'm not doing my best if I'm not concentrating on one thing. If I ever had a threesome I'd feel bad for the other two people not getting my best performance.

This, pretty much.

Threesomes just sound like they'd be tiring.

Wait... other two people not getting in on the performance? Surely at least one of them would be? Unless you waste the occasion by only... self-performing... :p

I'm pretty sure a girl would be able to entertain two guys. And, having said that, a guy could entertain two girls pretty well, if he was good at cunniligus. Simple answer; see porn for inspiration.

You sound like you've never had sex before.

You sound like you have no imagination or stamina. It helps to be hyperactive. :p

Do it when your drunk!

It's awesome!

Last time I had drunken sex I fell on the floor :D

You're looking to porn for sexual inspiration and she's got no imagination?

Uh-huh.

No, I was suggesting it to her, as she seems incapable of imagining how a threesome could possibly work.

EDIT: Drunken sex is always great. It can get very clumsy but it's always funny :D

God you're stupid. threesome's require all three participants to be doing something, or it's just a "two and some lump of meat"-some. I can't devote myself fully if I have to divide my attentions, so I think it's uncomfortable and annoying.

Have you ever tried it? I thought women could multi-task. Fellatio and coitus at the same time isn't that complicated. It can't be me that's stupid as threesomes are widely known as existing and happening - which means it obviously can work, and you just don't see how.

Why you would want a threesome in the first place amazes me, seems an odd thing to do.

Curiosity. It's not something for everyone, but for me it would be interesting to try. :)

Can =/= should

Well then don't call me stupid for having a different opinion to you.

Drunken sex is annoying. It takes ages to fucking come.

After fifteen minutes, it's not even sex to me. It's just a mad rush to finish, I've made a mental note to never tense my legs again. I took a cramp at the back of my leg during and had to stop, crying like a babe.

After nearly ten minutes it stopped. Bored, I played the Xbox.

She was not amused.

LOL, excellent. It unnerves my girlfriend when she thinks she hasn't done well enough when as soon as it's over, I play some PS3. :p Any other men ever find they become extremely easily distracted just after finishing sex?

it is if you're a lesbian

Sir, you have a point! More research is required.

You don't understand the fun of having two willing girls crawling over you?

You sir, are either gay or a virgin. But more than likely both.

Well it's your preference not mine, thankfully we live in a world where we don't all have one overwhelming opinion.