If he's gay, he'll still do it.

Oh, don't get me wrong, I don't MIND my girlfriend being submissive. The 'naughty girl' thing is an act I always get suckered into :D I was just curious as to why it seems to be that nigh every girl loves it.

Also, isn't 'enjoying rape' a paradox? If you want them to do it, it's barely rape any more (not technically speaking of course), but surely more like... just angry sex? =/

P.S. My current other half is a little partial to being tied or held down. This is probably an extension of the same feelings, right? :3

Yea it is a paradox :p And it's a fantasy solely exclusive to the mind.
So most people just translate it into angry, dominant and submissive sex :p

And yea, your other half probably finds it sexy to be in your hands. There must be a lot of trust there since s/he'll let you do it =)

This thread is dirtier than Tiger Wood's finger after 18 holes.

D'aww, never looked at it that way - thanks for that, cheered me up a bit (definitely a she by the way :p) :D

Any questions, anyone? Or dp I have to ask some horrific ones to keep the ball rolling?

Damn man, I'm all out.

Yes, ask horrific ones.

Okay, question for the girls;

Have you ever tried anal? If so, how'd it go? Enjoyable?
I understand the reason gay men are able to enjoy it is because it stimulates the prostate. Just curious as to what women think about it.

My girlfriend and I have used dildos, but both of us are adverse to sticking something up the rear after this guy at out school once described his anus bleeding whilst drunk.

So no.

I would have thought you'd be used to it by now.

Alcar...

Ehh, entschuldigung?

EDIT: Oh, I got it. God I'm slow this morning. :p

Yes, but that's meant to bleed.

???Girls don't like that. I heard. I saw.

You conquered?

In my experience. Most are but I know a few that like it. I also know gay guys that like it.

For my experience, girls don't care about anal sex. It's not bad, if you're gentle, but it's not stimulating as vaginal sex, as they told me. I don't know about men...nor do I care, for that matter.

Girls either love it, hate it or say they would hate it until they try it.

My GF kept saying she hated it but after gently introducing it she's becoming more opened up to it... Pun intended.

My girlfriend let me touch her boobs once. Did I win yet?

Your girlfriend let me touch her boobs once, too.

A girl touched my boobs once...

YOU AIN'T GOT NO PANCAKE MIX!

I hope you have the belly to go with it.

I don't really have boobs Jenny...they're implants! Shhhh.

Oh, you boys and your extravagances...oh wait...

I'm so envious of you lot! I have barely had any experiences with a relationships let alone Sex.

Truth be told, i'm not entirely bothered. Sure it would be nice to have a Girlfriend but to be honest, i'm happy at the moment single and a virgin (well not so much that part).

My time will come though. no pun intended

Does anyone ever feel shitty after watching porn and doing solo work? Like, when you've found this epic hot porn clip and just after you're done you watch a few more seconds and you're like OMG WTF AM I WATCHING!!!

Anyone?

I've never felt the need to go back to watching it whenever I got what I want from it, don't twist that either... I'm not as callous whenever it comes to physical contact with someone else.

Yeah. Finishing sort of necessitates closing all tabs in a kind of awkward fashion.

I have some favourite videos that I like to watch again. Well not these days. But when I was single.

Oh I have lots of material I go over multiple times, but I never continue with pornography after it's served its use.

I know what you mean. It's kind of a natural, guilty shame, right? Soon after I feel silly for that feeling, but it's odd while it lasts.

It's called a conscience. Please listen to it.

Pretty sure that we all do, when a matter of actual ethics arises.

Material designed to make people sexually aroused generally involves ethics—making the receiver commit mental adultery with that person. In years past, I used to watch such material—but my conscience burned me to the heart. I have since abstained, and I feel clean because of it.

I feel clean for living beyond the yoke of thought-crime.

Do you know that masturbation is healthy (as are other kinds of sexual activity) because it releases endorphins? In fact, studies have shown that at very young ages, children masturbate. It is a natural phenomenon, and if there is a God, he supports it.

It's good to be healthy, just not at the expense of sexual propriety, especially in the case of very young children.

Eric Bogle had the right idea:

Do you remember the day that if you said that you were gay
It meant with joy that you could sing and shout
A fairy was enchanting and dressing up and camping
Was something you did with the scouts
That care free age when an urgent case of aids
Was powdered milk we sent to the Sahara
A fruit was something nice to eat a poof was something for your feet
And a queen was an old tart in a tiara

Ah look what we've done to the old mother tongue
It's a crime the way we've misused it
It's been totally tis woggled, crumb and blonged and golly woggled
And we've strangled, mangled frangled and abused it

Ah those far off times when a bong meant a chime
And a buzz was a noise insecticidal
And joint was something between bones and getting really stoned
Only happened to bad people in the Bible
When if you had a bad trip it meant you fell and broke your hip
Cold turkey just meant Christmas at Aunt Dottie's
Coke was something that you burned; a smack was something that you earned
From your mumzie wumzie when you had been naughty

The years have gone I'm afraid when only eggs got laid
And only the rhinoceros got horny
Only kangaroos jumped and only camels humped
Getting stuffed meant a little taxidermy
Swing was for trapezes and Tarzan's chimpanzees
Tossing off was something Scotland did with cabers
Now it means something quite obscene
And heavy ugly scene is any movie starring Arnold Schwarzenegger

They're only words and words are what we use
When we got sod all to say

Bollocks. Language evolves. It's purpose is to be used to communicate, and restraining people's use of it is contrary to that purpose. It has to adapt to express new ideas, and any attempt to stop this requires that you pick an arbitrary stage in its evolution for it to be fixed at. Why not declare formal sixteenth century English the true form, or whatever it will be by 2100. What's so special about the English of our grandparent's generation?

Many of our words have evolved from their original, but only to make them easier to say. The words that Eric Bogle describes as being perverted are the ones that used to mean something pleasant and have now become abominations: gay, hump, joint, bong, stoned, aids, etc.

"Gay" was an insult, but has been reclaimed, so scratch that off the list. "Hump," well, that's innocuous and still used for all meanings freely, ditto "joint", "bong" is just a funny word, "stoned" is much more abominable in it's older meaning, "aids" is a misspelling of AIDS, Acquired Immune Deficiency Syndrome, which is a technical term for a disease. The disease is an abomination, but the word... I can't take you seriously with an example like that.

Gay remains an insult. It was used 2x this past week in my hearing. "Hump," not so innocent either. AIDS is a sexually transmitted disease, people around me were using it in not-so-nice ways.

Anyway, I would talk more, but as it's after 11 PM in my time zone, my bed calls me. This matter is not over...yet.