I NEED to get some advice here

He made out with her lips.


Not the ones on her face.

That was stupid, Daxter. >_>

Look, mate, I'm going to be very blunt and honest with you. I can look past my girlfriend having some flirty slipups, but from what you describe, she outright lied to you. If she lied to you about that, what else does she lie to you about? If there's one thing I would positively hate, it's a dishonest and disloyal girlfriend. I don't care how drunk or in the moment she was, she should have the good sense and respect to be an honorable mate to you.
I'm going to put it straight-forward. This may be hard for you to take the way I do, but I look at the world in a cold, analytical way. A girlfriend is not exactly like being in a marriage. You can leave her and there won't be major repercussions--assuming you don't have a child together. If she's like that, you may want to consider it as a viable option. Terminating the relationship. I feel the same way as towards both sexes and not limited to females. She may have cheated on you as a personal dare, to prove that she could do it, or she may have felt emotionally neglected by you. For the most part, she could just be "that girl" that messes with you and then ditches you and leaves you hanging. Believe me, I just came off one of those with an online friend. <_< Ultimately, it's up to you. I don't know what your girl is like.

Betrayal of trust isn't something to be taken lightly and from what I've seen, leads to further problems down the path.

Take it as an early warning before you invest even more effort into your relationship with her, and if she's still doing it, consider moving on to find someone else who won't do that to you, even though it's not an easy decision. Even being alone with your dignity intact is better than being humiliated by having your trust broken.

How long have you been with this girl? And what percentage of that time has she been lying to you?

I think that's the problem, Nate. It's kind of hard to tell if she can put on that poker face and lie as though she did it everytime she opened her mouth. I'd like to give him the chance to determine that himself. If you're not sure, better safe than sorry.

You must kill her

Hide the body out back



Seriously though, this isn't much to worry about.

You're 13, right? There'll be plenty other ladies who'll like you, don't get messed around by one girl because you'll find someone better than her. If you talk to her just ask her what really happened and how you feel. Being in a relationship shouldn't make you feel bad or upset, and trust is really important in making a relationship work.

I think you should talk to her, but ultimately it doesn't sound like she's being honest and she doesn't give you much reason to trust her.

You knew she was lying about the kiss to begin with, if you didn't break up with her then, you only have yourself to blame now.

Alcar...

I like the idea of giving her a sort of warning. Thanks.

@Nate, I've been with her for like 10 months now. And as far as I know, this is the only time she's betrayed my trust but like Spirrow said, I wonder if she's still doing it now.

I guess you're right. That's what most people have been saying and I know it's stupid and everything but I feel like I really do love her more than anything. I just don't feel like she's worth the heartache though.

And Alcar, I did know she was lying to begin with. I just let it go there's only so many times I can bring it up before I'll eventually just accept it.

Question mark?

Have you ever played Mortal Kombat?

I seem to recall playing one of the originals on the 64.

Mortal Kombat Trilogy?
Also, I was implying you should destroy her.

You're 13, this girl won't be with you in a year...probably won't be with you in the next few months. Sorry but I am being cynical because its the truth. Even now I see relationships of people my own age and I just think that we are still...slightly bigger...but nevertheless kids. Anyway don't worry about it, if you're that worried break up with her, if not, sort it out and forgive her, be the bigger man but make sure she knows you wont take shit and be stern.

Or something.

13 and already a slut. What is the world coming to

One solution. Two in the clunge and one in the plunge.

Well, you can't afford not to.