Bad things happen... Sigh
Posted 06-10-2008 at 03:03 AM by T-nex
Yea... I dunno if I'm gonna be alot on owf alot more... Well maybe in these few days but otherwise I'll be gone on vacation for about
1½ month.
Anyway it's not that important, just some little news for any of you who care.
Another thing is.. I don't know why I'm sharing these here.. but I'm growing quite desperate. I tried talking to several people from my family and friends but none of them help.
This will probably lead to nowhere too.
But anyway here goes(A little note to all of you who don't like reading personal and slightly sexual things... its gonna contain this)... Sometimes I'm too naive and trust people out of a good heart. And sometimes that backfires... Well.. at least it did this time.
I know a guy from the education I'm at. We were really open to each other(only in a friend way.. to me anyway). We met a few times before and just did fun stuff together. he knew I have a bf, and that Im not interested in anything but friendship.
Anyway I helped him with something at his home. And since its summer here, it's quite light outside even when it's late. So at some point he tells me that its past 11(which meant that my last bus home had taken off), and suggested I spend the night there(blah blah, you can sense where this is going, right?).
Anyway as stupid as I am, I agreed. Normally I would take a cab home, but I was in need of my money and also I felt I could trust him.
So all goes well, we just carry on as normal and go to sleep....
THen at 5 am I wake up and feel his hands roaming everywhere they shouldn't roam. All my private parts and inside too... And went on like that for quite some time. me of course going into panic I pretend to sleep, as I have no idea how to react. I was too afraid to just yell at him to stop and fuck off. So later as some time he stopped, I "woke" up or pretended to, and wanted to go home. He kept chatting me up as normal though so at some point I just said screw it and left. And he kept following me, pretending not to know what happened.
So yea, it might not seem like a big thing to you guys... but I feel extremely violated... On the other hand I feel happy and lucky that It didn't end up worse. That he didn't do anything worse.
But still ever since I just feel like crying, scratching my skin off and hurting random people.
So does any of you guys have any advice please... maybe BM or something. I dunno.
But I seriously feel so sad all the time now. All I want is to trust people... But I'm feeling that openness is closing. but I don't wanna lose my trust.
Also, I'm sorry for burdening all of you with this sob-story. It doesn't seem like that big of a deal. Worse things happen to other people, right? But it really shocked me, and I can't get the event out of my hand. I'm starting to hate everything, and I don't want to.
So if any of you have any tips to share about forgetting this and getting over it, please share.