Urgent and need advice!

call the cops, driving while drinking/drunk is a criminal offense

No, it will be all his fault. If he wants to join the police force, he needs to respect the law. If he doesn't, then he doesn't get to be a police officer. Report him.

You should report him.

You should break his face for telling your little sister to strip

And/or report him

You need to call the police, it doesn't matter if you like him or not, or if he wants to get into the force or not, he's putting people's lives in danger and he's being a terrible person to be frank. Call and ask to retain your anonymity if you want but you absolutely have to say to the police. I hope you have the strength to make the right decision.

He was my best friend, we were like brothers and he betrayed me in so many horrific ways. Hes a sick fuck, the reasons i told him to get out my life were because he told my mum i was taken by a stranger, he told my sister to strip, one night he stayed over, slept downstairs and in the middle of the night he came up and tried to get it on with me KNOWING i have a girlfriend and so did he back then, he once took my sister to the station because i asked him to for a favour, so he locks her in and drives her PAST the station eventually ending up at her school but didnt say a word to her the whole way and now hes drinking excessively everyday for attention. He is also
Much stronger than i am and knowing him he could really hurt me if he knows i report him and his first suspicions are always me.

Dude, you don't want another guy like that in the police force! Report him.

Stop being friends with this guy. Doesn't matter what ties you had with him - He'll just bring you down with him if he behaves this way.

Also don't worry about ruining his potential career because of his own actions - It'll probably be for the best. If he's irresponsible then he won't make a good policeman either - Provided he gets that far. They may reject him anyway by the sounds of things.

You may also be doing him a favour - Getting the authorities involved may open his eyes and wake him up if any part of him cares about being a decent person.

He sounds like a right scumbag. Me, personally, would cut ties, punch him regardless of his physical superiority and wish him a speedy trip to the grave. But that's me.

Worry less about your ex-best friend and worry more about your mutual friends. Let him implode his own life without your help; just do your best to seperate them from him.

Assuming they know what he's like, why the heck are they still hanging out with him?

Because he's a manipulative spaff stain. He gets people to believe anything he says. He bullshits all the time and licks ass for attention. Thing is, if i let him continue to do this shyt on his own then he will eventually end up 6 feet under and i will always have that conscience that it was my fault. Ive stopped him committing suicide once and its obvious he is from a very unstable background. He bitches about his new girlfriend saying how 'easy' she is and it makes me look like a retard for ever being friends with someone who could ever possible say that about someone they are supposed to love. I have tried warning all my friends about him and his driving, success 3/4 of the way. We were so close friends as well its like i always think of him every day pretty much because i offered my home to him when his parents were targeting him and i treated him like family. It feels hard to lose what feels like a family member, but i guess nothing in this life lasts forever.

Maybe it's time for me to stop treating people with decency and respect, because all that happens is you get used over and over and end up at square one. Besides, i could never hurt anyone its not in my nature. I just hope he learns his lesson, fails at life and moves away where he can die alone.

Well.....you're not supposed to love your girlfriend. You're supposed to like her, sure. But love is grown. It doesn't immediately arrive with the title of girlfriend.

Still, you dont go around telling everyone how easy she is to get behind her back, its disrespectful

That's what women are for.

I was wondering... How did all this end up?

*:P

Oh man i havent seen this blog in a while.. haha! Well i havent spoken to him since this happened.. Turned out that he managed to give himself herpes from having a coldsore on his lip, performing oral on a girlfriend of his, giving her the herp de derp, then he caught it himself by penetrating her haha!

No one i know has heard from him recently, i can only assume he's OD'd in an alley somewhere where he belongs

I obviously know little about him. And he probably deserved it but it seems such a waste. Reading it made me feel like he had some serious issues (duh). but they are things we could all do, I'm not saying I would but I could see myself doing outrageous things like that... if I wanted to.
I'm finding this hard to expllain but my main point is, i hope(wished?) he had turned over a leaf.

He definitely deserved dem herpes though

Can you seriously get herpes tht way though? haha