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Good luck. I hope you two can be friends again I suppose. I have a similar problem but I'm too pussy to admit I want to be friends again with a girl who hates me.

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Wow, you don't need the fucking bitch if she's going to be like that. You seem like a really nice person and someone like her will drag you down.

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I was going to keep my mouth shut since I'm still in touch with the both of you, but I do definitely feel for you. My sympathies.

Thanks, man.

Usually on Facebook, a thing on screen measures people comparing mutual friends, and listing them as 'people you might know'. 50% of the time, it's an ex of mine. I've never gotten any urge to renew contact with any of them because females go ape-shit in the weeks after a split. Although, only one ever took it well and I still talk to her on FB occasionally. I guess it depends on the person.

I suppose I can say good on you at least for trying. She probably did in fact, read it. She might've just said that to keep up an appearance or knew you'd look on her page, as she tried to maybe keep one-step-ahead of you on the emotional ladder.

Or she's just a bitch.

Chin up, lad. Plenty of friends and booty elsewhere.

I know little about the workings of Twitter, but is it possible that the fact that she was talking about you what prompted it to mark her as 'similar to you'?


I hate when a friendship goes bad. I had a friend at school who I fought with a lot but we always set aside our difficulties, but then when his younger brother came to the school he started saying (without any truth or provocation) that I was bullying him. I have no idea what the kid had against me and to the day have no idea why he said it (and I really, really wish I did, just to understand), but it split up the friendship for good, as well as alienating me from several friends who believed the lying little toerag child.

It's hard when you want to patch things up, when you value your friendship over pride, but the other person still isn't interested. Recently (particularly when I was applying for jobs and getting rejected a lot) I've had a habit of seeing every bad thing a person does to me in the worst possible way, and a very good friend pointed out to me that actually, despite my instinct telling me this was making me feel better, it was just making me more depressed and angry. While you can't know what's going on in her head, I'd recommend taking the difficult route of looking at it in the best possible light. Maybe she's just venting on Twitter in the same way you are here (admittedly thoughtlessly). Maybe she was genuinely shaken by seeing the email and binned it rather than face injured pride.

Sorry if I'm sounding patronising. Either way, I'd encourage you to think about it in the best way you can. Not only will it make you feel better, but it also gives the best chance of repairing the friendship in the future. (The last company I applied to rejected me - and I spent a week feeling miserable about it before my friend talked it over with me - but later offered me a temporary position, which I accepted.)

Bad times

She sounds like she isn't worth it anymore. so I would just forget about it.

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I guess I know how you feel... It's like someone you really love died, and is replaced by a bitter or completely changed person. It's like losing a close friend, but the vessel is still alive, and that's like life is mocking you.

Man I'm cynical x_x.


I think the best bet is to keep the good memories, and accept that some people can just move on. It's sad that you can't set your differences aside though I really feel for you.
Maybe some day in the future... like years from now, you two can meet again with no remorse of regret. But by then, I'm sure you will have made awesome life for yourself
Time heals all wounds. I can tell you this from experience. It heals wounds I thought it never would

You just really have to keep your heart open. Keep it open to new experiences, and a possibility for a future with not even a trace of your ex. If you can think of that future, and it seems sort of like "Ok, I guess I can manage this", then I'd say you're truly free of the chains the past relationship put on you.

But also give yourself time to break free. Don't force anything, cos that just mean you suppress things.

Well things probly aren't as bad as my post make em out to be.
But anyway, I think you'll be fine The future is filled with countless new adventures and surprises, and I think we should just accept things as they come and go.
Like you said, you learned a lot, and got some valuable life lessons. That's always good. ^^ I hope the best for you.

Edit: Oh and... I think you WILL get over it. I mean, you may always get a bitter sad feeling, thinking of how she's changed. But you've barely lived half your entire life. In a few years you will have filled yourself with so many new experiences, that this incident will just be one amongst many... Many good ones and many bad ones.

I guess I'm sort of writing to myself too though. Im going through something similar(but not exactly).

If it makes you feel any better, I spent lunch today attempting to console a guy who's girlfriend left him for her husband. That was... complicated.

It sounds complicated x_x

So what? I've never claimed my spelling was 100% perfect all the time.

Yes you did!
See?

she smacked yo bitch-ass down.

Nexy's the big dawg now.

I thought I was the big dawg now? =(

What is this MM?

I don't think I've ever seen you misspell something before.