So...

I know the feeling bro

I had a crush on a girl all through secondary school and she ended up dating this guy who was... really nice and good to her actually.

Still sucks. You'll get over it though.

Yeah. The guy who she's dating is actually pretty cool and I understand why she likes him. But still... just dammit.

*Manhug*

You have, like, the better part of high school and then university to go. You'll find someone.

I know it's not much consolidation, believe me I know, some of my blog is about the same thing but look at it like this...your still friends and now she is happy, at least for a time. And if the relationship crashes and burns, you can scoop her up like a damsel in distress!

Hive five!

Oh and apparently secondary school relationships are mostly poop anywho, maybe that helps?

...

That's repulsive.

He disgusts me.

Oh shit, my time at university is practically over. Now I'll never find someone! :'(

Isn't it sad.

Life sucks. Fuck bitches to make up for it.

Alcar...

But that's just the predicament Alcar!

@ Wings - You're personality is repulsive. Wham.

My personality which compels me against sexual predating is repulsive.

Yes.

He was talking about all that lovey dovey mopey shit. I was talking about fucking.

Alcar...

5 years?

Shit son.

I know.

Did you ever ask? No.

I won't even say "tough break, kid."

Sorry to hear that, i know it sucks

For future blogs that contain heartache and woe over some lost opportunity I'll say this, 'What's the worst she can say?'

Fucking go out and ask them, girls are people too.

I know, I'm shy. And what's the point in going up to her and asking her out when she just started dating with another boy?

I'm assuming that you're thirteen, she's thriteen and he's thirteen. This isn't serious, not for the time being anyways and should certain circumstances occur they will most likely 'break up.' Then you can ask her but keep in mind that it won't be serious.

When you find a person who's really really right for you, you'll feel strongly enough to ask them out.

Love > Shyness.

Love conquers all, amirite?

I can vouch for that!

I guess so. :/

Did she even know you had feelings for her? No point in moping around if you never tried to do anything about it in the first place. And if she did know and had no interest in you, jesus christ, five years is a long time to carry that torch.

What DI said, pretty much.

No offense, but you are only thirteen. You may think you have strong feelings for this girl, but come on. Come next year, there will plenty of more girls to look into relationship-wise. I know, I've been there.

Also, I'm in my last year of twelfth grade, and only recently got my first girlfriend. It's pretty common to not have one through High School. Not that you need one, really.

Lol thats almost like Chris's friend who had a crush on someone for years, and by the time he finally got the courage to ask her out she said no... or she found someone. I dont remember. But he refers to her as his ex, despite them never having been together.
Really though, there will be others... And if she doesn't work out with that guy you can try again when she's available. And no.. this behavior is not fucking repulsive or despicable <.< It's normal. If a guy still has a crush on someone after they broke up with their current partner, then whats wrong in trying again then?

It's only creepy if he uses the pretense of being her friend to lie in wait for the relationship to crumble so he can step in when she's vulnerable.

Which is what I read into STM's comment.

Fucking ugly.

No I didn't mean that, I meant that if she does lose her relationship, in time Dynamithix will have another chance. It's sort of hard to write that in any way that doesn't sound bad, it's not meant to sound predatory.

Well of course any friendship with hidden motives is ugly... I would never want that.

Then Id just prefer the guy to be honest and tell me he had a crush on me even if Im in a relationship. I've never rejected guys who have done this to me. I just told them it's fine as long as they are aware that I love my partner, and they will most likely never be more than my friend. If they can accept this, I will accept them as friends too.