Feelin Weird

Cheer up bud. It could be worse.

yeah....i still feel weird though.....i am wondering......should i break up with her...? after all the love i've promised her before she told me "The Truth"?

She lied. It happens. Normally the right thing to do would just be to forgive. But given you didn't have much of a tangible relationship to begin with, I'd just call it quits. After all, she could be lying this time as well.

Besides, she's probably going to start asking for money soon.

but i really don't blame her for lying for "safety" reasons...cuz nowadays we all hear about the "Rape n Kill" relationships that start on the net.

She's twelve years old and what is this?

um

right

Moderators

ban this guy and delete this blog

Or else Chris Hansen

Dateline NBC

would like us to have a seat over there

If u r going to be a pain in the ass everytime u say something, then don't even bother saying stuff strike witch.

and i don't think someone should be joking or spamming in this topic...cuz i am dead serious...this is important for me, i am kinda falling into depression.

Do you love her for her personality or for the image of her you had constructed in your mind?

I think you ought to concentrate on something other than speaking with girls you don't know on the internet. It's a bizarre habit, and it isn't very productive.
Forgive me if I'm wrong, but I really doubt that you are slipping into real depression. This really shouldn't be that traumatic. Unless you have bipolar, and this has thrown you into a genuine downer (which is much worse than what you're probably feeling), I think it's more likely you're just a bit miffed.

maybe...
@enchilado: for her personality...for her heart...maybe with a little bit of the other but mainly because of her personality....because of who she is...IDK i am just feel all upside down on the inside.....confused.....

and although i might just break up with her as most of u say, I don't wanna hurt her...even if she lied, she still has a loving, caring and compassionate heart that i don't wanna break.

Take care, buddy.

shes 12 and your 15? Hmmm I will say she's too young. I started dating around 15 And for some reason i attracted young girls, which is not a bad thing but i feel weird about it, i rather date someone my age or older...not to old though xD

I hate it when you say things.

@RyuuFox: i am incredibly similar to u then...

Incredible.

Smell the fucking sunshine OANST. It will get better.

Thank you, Billy.

BUT WAIT, THERE'S MORE!

I still suspect infatuation.

You should have known better than to post something serious and expect exclusively serious responses without any spam.

You can't take away Strike Witch's freedom of speech.

You should do what you feel is best, not what the majority of forum-goers think you should do. You're bound to feel strange after learning that someone you've fallen in love with has been lying to you but you are still the only person who has the ability to choose what you do about it; confused or not. She could be the best thing that ever happens to you or one of those big mistakes that you'll never forget. At this point, only you can tell which it is.

No, he should not do what he thinks he should do. He should break up with her. She lied to him, is underaged, and is some random internet chick from who-knows-where. It would be foolish to facilitate such a relationship.

Doing something foolish for love is in no way uncommon.

She has given a valid excuse for lying. Although, of course, she may still be lying. That's down to him to decide.

It's not like they're having sex so age shouldn't be such a big concern.

I agree that random internet chicks are a bad basis for a relationship but her location, how they met and how they spend their time together shouldn't stand in his way if he wanted to stay with her.

Foolish or not, Abe619 should do what he feels he should do.

I don't think any of us would disagree if we thought he had the capacity to make wise decisions.

He didn't fall in love with her, he fell in love with an internet persona she invented. This can only lead to trouble and you shouldn't encourage him by romanticizing it.

You guys are all acting like you thought this relationship had a future before you discovered she was lying.

Break up with her, stay with her... do whatever feels good. In ten years time your life will not be any different either way.

No... our lives will not be any different in ten years time. Which is why I don't give a flying hoot.

I will say this though... try meeting girls IRL before you try online dating.

i didn't fall in love with an internet persona......according to her if she is not lying....she really does love me.....she has the same personality.....just a different body.

Are you worried about the age gap, though?

well, i didn't even notice that she wasn't 16 before she told me.....so she probably is really more mature than her own age.

oh and i think i have decided.

I am staying with her.

Okay. This is none of my business, but I feel compelled to at least give you a slight warning. Odds are good that she is not a twelve year old black girl. Odds are good that she isn't even a she.

This is most likely someone who thinks that screwing with your head is a good time. People do this all the time.

I'm 99.9% sure we all saw this coming.

Also... Before you get emotionally involved with someone on the net... At least friggin webcam and mic-chat with just to have the age and gender confirmed. And if you webcam, tell them to do something ridiuclous that a pre-recorded video wouldn't do.