Hey, let's not all mess up FennecFyre's welcome thread.
MOD EDIT: This post and a bunch of those responding to it were split off from this thread here.
I want to make it clear in this thread and elsewhere: Transphobic and homophobic language isn't acceptable on these forums, even when not addressed to trans or gay people. Also, making jokes about a female member just because she's a female makes you a dick. And the members of OWF only like dicks in the most literal sense. |
Ah, so only jokes that don't offend special snowflakes are okay. Isn't it a bit hypocritical to say you can make a joke about one thing but not about another? What if I'm offended by A Fanart? Can I have it removed because it hurts my poorly little feelings?
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Do we need a Safe Space subforum where people can post when they've been #triggered?
I won't comment on the gay/trans jokes because I am neither gay nor trans, but in all seriousness, I'm not going to get that upset if someone jokes because I'm a girl. Given that I'm currently majoring in a field that's mostly guys (game design, AKA I'm probably gonna be poor as hell my entire life but at least I'll be having fun) there's really no point in getting my panties in a wad about things like that. So yeah sexism is bad but I can handle a joke. ANYWAY, how's everyone doing? I'm lurking on OWF instead of working on the paper that's due Monday. |
Sexism is bad but it isn't nearly as big of an issue as people think it is. Also, I like you, you're cool. I also studied games design up until a few weeks ago where I got sick of going and decided to stop because it was making me miserable.
Oh and yeah, Nate, give us our fucking safe space you cunt! |
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Nothing said in this thread even warrants a warning like that. Everything here is obviously said in a joking fashion and if people can't take that they are like a white guy in Harlem. Completely in the wrong fucking place. To drive this home I will now make a sexist comment to our newest female member because I know she can take it (ha, take it). Hey Fennec, how you doin'? :fuzwink: |
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Also, if you were offended by A Fanart, I'd definitely consider taking it down. But you're not a special snowflake, so I know you're not offended by it. There's a distinction between a joke that mentions homosexuality and a homophobic joke. Nothing about what I said implied a fear, dislike, or hatred of gay people. :
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I'm not going to censor myself from using certain words because some people might hurt their feewings D:
I was not being a dick, it's called banter. I frequently joke with Vyrien about it and if somebody gets offended by a word that 8snt directed at them, then that's their problem. Jesus fucking Christ, last I checked this was OWF, not fucking BuzzFeed. Should I put a trigger warning at the top of my posts from now on, too? :
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More importantly I can't believe I said "your" instead of "you're". I'm fucking disgusted with myself.
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I don't actually think Nep was trying to antagonise other members, we call each other faggot all the time here and nobody bats an eye, a slur which is arguably worse than 'tranny'. Like he says, it's a running joke anyway (I am manly as fuck) and I thought the implication was that I'm a dude in drag, rather than an individual suffering with gender dysphoria.
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But what do I know? I'm just a tranny SJW. |
I'M BISEXUAL YOU FUCKING LUNATIC, HOW CAN I BE HOMOPHOBIC?
Christ, this forum is a fucking shambles. |
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These terms are not vague in any way, shape, or form. Also, no-one accused you of being homophobic. Strawman, again. |
FrustratingAssassin definitely accused me of being homophobic.
And I'll tell you this. Gay jokes are not homophobic. No jokes have an opinion on any issue because they are jokes, you know what a joke i- no, forget it of course you don't. And yeah, it's vague because there's a blurred line there. It seems you completely ignored Vyrien's post where she pointed out that we frequently call each other faggots. Also, she just used the word tranny. I'm offended. Give her an infraction please kthxbai |
I don't care what the fuck you call Vyrien. I care about the context around it. As I've said multiple times and you keep ignoring: This isn't about you and Vyrien.
And if FA called you homophobic, then she's misusing the term and probably meant transphobic. |
Even some of my closest friends are trans, but no, no, I'm sure FA knows me much better than I know myself. How foolish I was to assume otherwise.
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It feels like you both are trying really hard to make it look like I care enough about a person to go out of my way to offend them this much. I do not. I do not give one, solitary shit about FA or what she is offended by. I do give a solitary shit about making a joke to a friend in a thread with a relevant context. And that is what it was. |
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It was more of a statement. It annoyed me how you can get anything taken down if you don't like it.
That isn't right, Nate. You said if I was legitimately offended by something you probably would have it removed. Why? I wouldn't want you to do that. It's patronising and it doesn't forward discussion at all. It's just censorship. Even if it was a dumb joke. |
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I would Nate but I just woke up and I can't be fucked reading all that right now. Could you make it into like an easily digestible video or something? Like a top ten. Just, just do what BuzzFeed would do. You've taken cues from them before so it shouldn't be an issue.
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You acted transphobic. Having trans friends doesn't excuse you for bullying a person for being trans. Quod Erat Demonstrandum.
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Calling someone (who, might I add, is totally okay with it) a tranny as a joke =/= bullying a person for being trans.
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Shit no ignore post I can't read
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I wasn't bullying you, you precious llittle flower, I was making a joke. And yes, before you come back with your stupid bullshit rhetoric, that does make it okay
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Because it's funny. For both parties. Unless that person is a special snowflake who takes everything to heart.
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In defence of Nepsotic, saying:
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(it's not the most loved video on youtube) |